❤Ashley: October 2011

Monday, October 31, 2011

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Who to blame?

Just wanna share a meaningful post i saw in Facebook.

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think...！

Ermm, it depends on urself how to see this story.

A busy yet fun day with this mischievous yet adorable baby! :D

Was playing around in my room.

Actually, i wanna do my tutorials. But, he keep stick around me, and asking hug hug from me. =)

OMG! The way he talk is just like melting my heart, *ok, gugu xixi ya* :P

See, he knows to camwhore! *with his messy gugu* HAHA

P.E.A.C.E

He kissed me, so photogenic this baby!

Love the way he cuddling me, so sweet <3

I LOVE YOU TOO BABY! :p ❤

261o11

LIVE

AWESOMELY

~~WITHOUT~~

YOU!

Ad 2 days,

Jia you ba!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Sometimes when we touch

Happy Sunday! =) wee~~

Lazy lazy lazy and procrastinate! I'm so unproductive :(

Is listening to Olivia Ong's Song, A.D.D to it. haha

Guess what? Zeze baby singing with me. :D

OMG, i love the way he sing, so CUTE!!

HAHAHHAHAHAH

wah~ lol

We brought him to Challenge Park, :D

I discovered there are lotsa parks near by my area. BUT, i never been there, and i dun even noe about them b4, hahha, that's me la.

Nice Song <3

You ask me if I love you
And I choke on my reply
I'd rather hurt you honestly
Than mislead you with a lie
And who am I to judge you
On what you say or do?
I'm only just beginning to see the real you

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

Romance and all its strategy
Leaves me battling with my pride
But through the insecurity
Some tenderness survives
I'm just another writer
Still trapped within my truth
A hesitant prize fighter
Still trapped within my youth

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

At times I'd like to break you
And drive you to your knees
At times I'd like to break through
And hold you endlessly

At times I understand you
And I know how hard you've tried
I've watched while love commands you
And I've watched love pass you by

At times I think we're drifters
Still searching for a friend
A brother or a sister
But then the passion flares again

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides